Professional shots are perfectly fine, but not required. Start your profile by sharing your interests and hobbies rather than talking about work or children.
You won't look like you are trying too hard—you'll just look your best! If you have some activities you know men like too, note those first to catch a man's attention. Even if your career is your life, it is your most attractive quality.
But be careful with humor—it's not as easy to pull off as you might think and can backfire.
(Sometimes what you thought of as witty, comes across as snarky)such as "no couch potatoes" or "must be honest." Men will see you as being critical and this detracts from your fun quotient.8. Don't post group shots of you with your female friends as your profile photo—men get frustrated trying to figure out which woman you are!
You should have a “genuine smile” in your picture, one that crinkles up your eyes. It’s good if you can get a shot of you in the center of a group of people (because, Power), better if you’re a man to have a few women smiling adoringly at you (because, Desire), and best if you’re shown touching another person, but not being touched, because apparently the toucher is perceived to be of a higher status.