Your friend's partner may seem awesome on a Saturday night when that's all you see of them, but a true connection (regardless of how you met) is always tougher to find.
The best thing is to be honest with yourself regarding the nature of your feelings. " The reason I went after TWO of my BFF's ex-girlfriends is that I really believed I would make a good match with both women.
The relationship ended on relatively okay terms as they often still spoke/ saw each other after the break up because they shared a lot of mutual friends.
Nonetheless - the breakup still caused her A LOT of heartbreak.
do when pursuing the exes of their best friends, or less-than-best friends, even.