There can be no greater gratification than being in sync with the eternal dimension of one’s person. You do have to be careful and thoroughly check out any given candidate. It is an arduous and time consuming process but can lead to successful results.
Having said that, on a day-to-day practical level, my dear reader, intensify your prayers, “storm the heavens” so to speak. Visibility and networking is another avenue to explore.
After Death Traditional Judaism believes in the World to Come, the coming of the messianic age heralded by the messiah, and a resurrection of the dead, but beliefs vary on the details.
Some believe souls of the righteous go to heaven, or are reincarnated, while the wicked suffer from a hell of their own making or remain dead.
Dear Reader, Your pain and frustration are totally understandable. Your longing to find an appropriate mate is a legitimate desire and a worthy pursuit.