Otherwise you'd end up being emotionally and perhaps financially involved with a person, but having a different purpose and such a big disagreement will inevitably, negatively affect the relationship.
This would lead to arguments and even to a separation, and even if this doesn't happen, anyway one of the partners will never be completely happy.
If he’s not down to chat for twenty-minutes on the phone or Skype after your baby is asleep, he’s not dating material for you. Deadbeat Dad You may know how crazy it can be to coordinate with an ex when it comes to visitation and finances.
So you might be tempted to let it slide if a guy doesn’t see his kids often "because his ex is crazy" or he "wasn’t ready to be a dad." But don’t.
You want to have children but don't have a partner, time is passing by and you are getting more and more frustrated?