The best communication occurs with an even and equal exchange between two people. Getting to know someone new is like peeling an onion one thin layer at the time. But some people, overeager to get into deep and meaningful conversation, go too far too fast.
This is definitely not a bad first date question, on the contrary.
It’s one of those first date questions that will intrigue your partner, or even make him laugh.
The two pick at their dinner salads, staring down at the leafy mound before them. Finally, one of them tries to grease the wheels of conversation. Some people consider themselves skilled communicators because they can talk endlessly.
But the ability to speak is only one part of the equation—and not the most important part.
The process begins by providing lots of space for the full expression of information and asking follow-up questions to further draw out the one talking.