There is no one way of guaranteeing that a legitimate submissive or slave won't mistakenly end up in an environment that just isn't what she thought it was, but there are some steps a submissive or slave should take, or at least consider before she sets out in search of a submissive or slave chat room or forum.The first and most obvious, but hardest to do, slow down!These forums target all aspects of the Dominant submissive Lifestyle, whether Dominant submissive, Master slave, BDSM Top or bottom, Gorean Master slave, or a multitude of other variations of different types of power exchange relationships.
They will show you the tools and equipment they have to use on you, they will tell you what to bring to your online show and they will claim you as their own property.
Today on the internet there are a vast number of chat rooms, forums and message boards all targeted to those with an interest in the Dominant submissive (D/s) Lifestyle.
No, Dominants are not all Teddy Bears, nor are they all the image of a harsh, overbearing Viking so don't start looking at Dominants with a preconceived notion of what every Dominant or Master is like.
Just as you are very unique and different, so are they.
To most that are there, it's an opportunity for "role play", it's a "game" where no one will get hurt.