Developing that killer instinct and having a strong presence takes time but with enough consistent effort, you won’t second guess or doubt your ability to be the best version of yourself.
Internal confidence is genuine, it’s something that’s attractive, and the aim is to learn to build the mindsets and reaffirm to yourself that you’re more than capable of being attractive.
This eternal truth was first revealed to me at my 18th birthday party.
The process of selection is largely unchanged too: you gather information about a prospective partner, as do they, and if there’s a high level […] I’ve known this to be true for a long time …
the guys in the band always get more girls than those of us who are musically challenged.
While in some cases that may be true, you may want to step back and assess their values and your own if those are the type of women you’re consistently attracting in your life.
Without a doubt physical health, good finances, and great relationships will help out and make you a more attractive man in the long run, they are part of the equation (every man has the ability to improve all three) but will only get you so far with women.
Like the guy I mentioned in the example above, his x-factor that really put him in a position to meet, connect, flirt, and make out with the pretty brunette was the confidence he probably spent a long time cultivating.